YWS 30th anniversary series: Art

YWS 30th anniversary series: Art

“I knew my father was a troubled man.  He would beat me up for silly reasons.  When I was 18 two days before Christmas he decided to throw me out of the house.  Told me to pick up my things and go.”

Art managed to accumulate four or five lockers at school where he could store his personal belongings.  He found an abandoned car, locks intact, cleaned out the back, and lined it with newspapers.  This is where he slept each night.  It was winter so his feet would freeze at night, he would get up walk around and lay back down.  Art had become part of the hidden homeless. The primary cause of youth homelessness is breakdown or conflict within the home. Youth like Art are forced to leave unsafe, abusive and unbearable situations. More than one-third of young people who experience homelessness in Canada are from Ontario. Youth in your neighborhoods.

            A co-worker noticed  Art was continually struggling with a cold and not getting better.  This co-worker brought him to the safety of Youth Without Shelter (YWS).  At YWS he was given a safe place to sleep, warm clothing and nutritious meals.  The YWS Team challenged him to look beyond day to day survival to his future.  Not long after, Art was able to connect with extended family and move in with them. Art completed high school and worked tirelessly to save money to pursue further education.  He chose to enter the Social Service Worker Program at college.  He saw this as a way to give back and support others who were in situations like he had been.  Youth thrown into homelessness find themselves without the personal, social and life skills necessary to make independent living possible.

            Art chose to do his college field placement at Youth Without Shelter. While in school he worked part-time at YWS cooking and leading life skills workshops.  A university degree followed along with time in the corporate world.  Weekends you could still find him at YWS helping out.   Today, Art is YWS’s Planning and Evaluation Manager.  When youth challenge him with: “You don’t understand what I am going through you’ve never been where I am.”  Art will think quietly to himself, “Yes I do, let’s keep talking and move forward.”

YWS 30th anniversary series: Dammy

YWS 30th anniversary series: Dammy

“YWS was my first home in Canada.”

My name is Dammy, I’m 21 years old.  I want to talk about my experience in Youth Without Shelter and how they have helped me and seen me through difficult times.”

Dammy left Nigeria to escape the uncertainty of life amidst the coups.  He arrived in Canada as a youth refugee claimant.  At the airport Dammy randomly approached a man he did not know, told him his circumstances and went home with him.  That living situation did not last long and Dammy was referred to Youth Without Shelter (YWS).

YWS was his first home in Canada.  “Sometimes I just want to stay quiet.  Staff make me feel happy even when I’m sad. It is not easy to be on your own, not easy to be a man.”  ‘My first priority is school.”

With the support of the YWS Team Dammy has now been granted conventional refugee status; secured housing and moved out.  He is involved in the community as he works towards his citizenship.

“Firstly I want to appreciate all that the staff have done for me, and I hope you all keep it up.  I can’t just list everything YWS has done for me.  Starting from the case worker, housing worker and so on they never make me feel I am alone here in a strange country.  I really appreciate all your efforts to improve my life.  Thank you very much.”

Dammy expressed his thanks in the 2016 A home for the holidays video.

 

YWS 30th anniversary series: Sean

YWS 30th anniversary series: Sean

I was 16 years old, scared, full of anger. I never felt so alone.

Sean’s relationship with his Mom was one of conflict. A single mom, Sean resented her, blaming her for his dad not being there. Because they were not getting along Sean at 16 moved into a rooming house. It was in the rooming house that Sean was introduced to crack, and his struggle with addiction began. “I’ve done things I am not proud of, sold my parents wedding rings, all for a fix.”

After a stint in rehab, Sean found his way to Youth Without Shelter (YWS): “I was 16 years old, scared and full of anger. I never felt so alone.” “It was scary on the streets alone, acting tough but I was alone.” The year was 1996.

That day was the beginning of the rest of my life. YWS took me in with open arms.” Sean struggled with the structure and rules of YWS and his addiction. Over an eight year period Sean was in and out of YWS multiple times. But the YWS Team never gave up on Sean. “They cared, they wanted to help. It was like you have all these parents pushing you to do good.” Sean committed himself to YWS’s programs participating in day programs (today’s Steps to Success Program): “I learned so much about myself during life skills. I eventually took over the kitchen on the weekends, making the most amazing brunches.”

Today Sean is an event planner. Recently Sean shared with the YWS Team that he has been accepted to the Child and Youth Care Worker Program at Humber College as a mature student. He would like to give back drawing upon his life experiences, and maybe do his student placement at YWS.

You can hear Sean share his story in the new 2016 A home for the holidays video

“Many things have changed since my last stay in 2004 but the one thing that never changes is the YWS vision: Ending homelessness, one youth at a time, one step at a time.”

YWS 30th anniversary series: Melony

YWS 30th anniversary series: Melony

Melony was born in Trinidad and Tobago. She lived with her Mom, brothers and Step-Dad. As a youth she was persecuted for her sexuality, she had a girlfriend. Melony tried to run away but when she did the police located her, and raped her. She made the decision for her own safety to leave Trinidad and Tobago.

Melony arrived in Canada to live with her Aunt, who she really did not know. Her living situation quickly turned difficult as her Mom had shared with her Aunt that back home a girlfriend had been part of her life. The Aunt who had a daughter of her own seemed to feel that Melony would influence her daughter. Living together became intolerable.

Melony found her way to Youth Without Shelter(YWS). “They became my best friends, helped me with anything I needed.” “If you want to be independent YWS helps you be independent. No one does it for you. They will guide you, but you must do the work to be independent.”

Melony has now transitioned to her own place and received training in the administrative field. She is writing a book about her life experiences which she hopes will support others with their life journeys. You can hear Melony share her own story in the video on the YWS home page.