YWS 30th anniversary series: Tom*
*Name has been changed to maintain confidentiality.
At 14 years old, he was living with his alcoholic father. In his father’s home he became a statistic, one of the 47% of homeless youth who report being physically abused by a family member. By his fifteenth birthday, he had become a Crown Ward and entered the foster care system. In one year he bounced between multiple foster care and group homes. He acknowledges that he was angry (and a challenge) because in his heart he knew that he did not deserve his fate. When he suffered abuse in a group home at sixteen, he checked himself out of care, and took to the streets. He became one of the hidden homeless, bunking with friends, living in alleys and doorways.
A high school drop-out he drifted from job to job. Wanting a place to call his own, he camped out in parks. One evening after not having eaten for days, he was driven to steal food and he got into trouble with the law. A court mandated rehabilitation period followed. Upon his release with no other options he arrived at Youth Without Shelter (YWS).
His YWS Case Manager began to help him by simply listening. As pieces of his story tumbled out she began to connect him with resources to restore his confidence. Goals were set for each day. Access to a gym was arranged so he could physically tackle the stresses in his life. He was able to secure employment. It was in a meeting with the Housing Workers that the possibility of finishing high school first arose. School was not even on his list of goals.
Shortly after, he moved into the Stay in School Program and enrolled in an adult high school. When completing a school assignment he wrote: “Without Youth Without Shelter, I would not be typing this essay right now. Instead I would probably be thinking of how to get my next meal of where I will sleep tonight.” Wanting to give back (and to complete his community service hours required to graduate) he offered to paint a mural in the emergency residence family room. Little did we know of his hidden artistic talent. Today, a magnificent beach scene continues to welcome youth to YWS. He is now a proud high school graduate, an achievement he never thought possible. Congratulations.
August 2012: YWS In Transition Newsletter