YWS 30th anniversary series: Georgiette
Hello ladies and gentlemen, my name is Georgiette and I am proud to say that I am an ex-resident of YWS.
Would anyone agree that life is full of surprises?
I would like to share a bit about myself and my relationship with YWS.
I came to Canada at age 12, lived with my Dad. On my 16th birthday I was kicked out for having a cell phone. Things just didn’t make sense any more.
When I arrived at YWS, I realized that I would have to eat, sleep, shower or anything else you would normally have the freedom to do were now limited to when you were told, I was angry. I didn’t think the staff understood or even cared about how we felt.
The girl who was a great student, teen leader, student member and simply a decent teen that most parents would be proud of, became stubborn with a great wall built that I thought no-one could climb.
It took a few staff members to pen my eyes, reminding me that I do have potential and it’s not the end of the world. Things could get better, but I would go out and get it. I started to forgive again and engaged in all that YWS had to offer; housing info sessions, art, cooking and many more. I even received a scholarship due to an ad I saw posted at YWS, and decided to take action. It didn’t both me as much anymore that we had to share 8 rooms with 29 people. I knew better things were to come if I allowed them to help me and I did.
After 9 years of not giving up and trying to be productive I am happy to say that I am now pursuing a career at Humber College in the Social Services Worker Program so that I, one day might have the opportunity to pass on the lifelong gifts that I have received from such a wonderful support system.
I would like to say thank you to the amazing people at YWS for providing me with the tools necessary to make positive change in my life and hopefully others. I can’t say it was easy and quite frankly the journey, has just begun. But, I haven’t given up and don’t intend on doing so.
Though my stay at YWS was quite brief, the life values and skills I have learnt will remain forever, Had it not been for their support, I would not have known a lot of valuable info until later in life. I can’t say I was the best experience ever, I mean what 16 year old wants to be told what to do and when. But I can say, however, that I took a lot away with me once I left; I knew my rights as a tenant and as a person, how to cook different foods, more advanced computer techniques, being able to write an effective resume and I learnt a little valuable thing called time management.
I can go on all night about the good and bad experiences I had at Youth Without Shelter or as I have come to learn, it should be called “Youth With Support” but I will leave you on one last note:
Saying no to drugs and easy money, made me stronger
Days of hunger taught me to cope with pain
All sorts of abuse, taught me to forgive
Loneliness encouraged me to build confidence
Being neglected showed me how to love.
Shared by Georgiette at YWS’s Annual General Meeting, September 2013. Georgiette now holds a Social Services Worker Diploma.